And what is more terrible - such people will never return

It is not true that your beloved man can leave you! He can! Believe me! He can! He will do it, early or late, having realized that his relations with you don't bring him any happiness. Giving himself to you, doing eveything for you and sacrificing a lot only to be beside you he doesn't get anything in turn. You disappoint him. You when he raised you to the pedestal didn't give him your hand and didn't put him on the pedestal beside you. And thanks to him you stand on this pedestal. He knows that you mustn't give anything to him in return that you mustn't raise him onto your pedestal which had been erected by him; that you mustn't risk and make any sacrifice that's why such relations are unbearable to him. He will leave you at the moment when he understands that he means for you less than you do for him. He will tell you nothing. He will blame you on nothing. You will suspect nothing. It is stupid to ask for love or understanding. He will leave quietly, silently and what is the most terrible - suddenly. And what is more terrible - such people will never return.